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[vittu]

There’s this one girl who I don’t even really know. She has a boyfriend but she has some kind of an obsession about me, I don’t know why. The idea at first was that she would want to cheat his boyfriend with me, which I’m not sure I want to do.

She sends me 15+ text messages within a few hours, usually at night to a person she doesn’t even know!!! That’s not normal. If that wouldn’t be screwy enough I mentioned that I met this goth chick and that were prolly starting to date and she’s really jealous about it.

She now sends me text messages like “I hate you” and a minute later that “I love you so much” and so on… every fuckin’ day. And I don’t even know this girl well and she has a fuckin’ boyfriend. The problem is that she’s pretty hot, otherwise I wouldn’t even reply to her anymore.

I’m just kind of freaked out that she will find me and stab me or something cause she seems like a psycho.

Has anyone had any similar experiences about psychotic girls???

[Cool Hand]

Just say something terrible to her so she won't want anything to do with you.

Tell her you really want to piss on her face or something.

[JonnyStone27]

sounds like your average chick

[vittu]

Just say something terrible to her so she won't want anything to do with you.

Tell her you really want to piss on her face or something.

I already have. Didn't work. She's a sub

(I didn't exactly say that I want to piss on her face but..)

[joe]

Psycho bitches should be left well alone, no matter how hot they are, seriously, you'll only get your cock burned.
I vote you stay away from her completely, maybe show the text messages to her boyfriend, or just change your number.
Just run.
FUCKING RUN! GET AWAY!
Psycho bitches are just not worth the hassle.

[vittu]

And also I don't want to be too rude cause she seems like a nice girl, a little psychotic maybe but nice.


And I don't want to end up dead

[Crone]

PB's are great in bed though  

[imhotep]

Tell her you have a STD.

[Cool Hand]

I already have. Didn't work. She's a sub

(I didn't exactly say that I want to piss on her face but..)

Really...just say, "I want to piss all over you, especially your face."

That'll be the last you hear from her.

[JonnyStone27]

And also I don't want to be too rude cause she seems like a nice girl, a little psychotic maybe but nice.

it's all an act

does she know where you live? otherwise she's got nowt on ya.

[vittu]

Really...just say, "I want to piss all over you, especially your face."

That'll be the last you hear from her.

I honestly don't think so cause she seems pretty hardcore. She's actually asked me if I'm into that. She has also sent me messages like would you like to cut me, I'll cut myself all the time.

Sometimes she sends stuff like "I'm going to take pills and kill myself if you don't reply."


And I also feel kind of sorry for her. Prolly cause she's damn fine.

does she know where you live? otherwise she's got nowt on ya.

Nope but she has my number. All she has to do is send one text message and she'll get my address.

it's all an act

It prolly is but still.

[Howie]

do you think she meets these criteria?

Borderline Personality Disorder

Five or more of the following present for a significant period of time:
   1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. [Not including suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5]
   2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
   3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
   4. Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, promiscuous sex, eating disorders, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). [Again, not including suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5]
   5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
   6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days)
   7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
   8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
   9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.

[Juicy]

a question like this should be in a 'Ask Juicy' thread


first, why did you give her your number. what do you mean she doesn't know you???  explain that

you I'm sure had some sort of sign telling you that she was a bit odd..... some sign in the begining that you either missed or ignored... I'm sure you ignored it based on what your cock was telling you to do..... that was your mistake my friend.

[joe]

I say back off, ignore her, despite her suicide pleas etc, she's just exercising control over you.
Just stop replying to her, easy as. It won't stop immediately and the messages will get VERY disturbing, but eventually she'll find someone else to obsess over. As long as it's not you, eh?

[Cool Hand]

a question like this should be in a 'Ask Juicy' thread

I'd like an "Ask Juicy" thread.

Make one.

I'm sure I'd need some advice from a worldly, knowledgeable woman at some point.

[Howie]

you I'm sure had some sort of sign telling you that she was a bit odd..... some sign in the begining that you either missed or ignored... I'm sure you ignored it based on what your cock was telling you to do..... that was your mistake my friend.

when the cock speaks, we listen
really we are just the messenger for the cock's deisres

[Juicy]

I'd like an "Ask Juicy" thread.

Make one.

I'm sure I'd need some advice from a worldly, knowledgeable woman at some point.

shut the fuck up CH.

[Cool Hand]

shut the fuck up CH.

Okay, but I wasn't being at all sarcastic.

I think it would be interesting.

[Juicy]

when the cock speaks, we listen
really we are just the messenger for the cock's deisres

sadly that is your demise.  

boys are fucking stupid. yeah maybe we think different. but still ya'll are a dumb lot.  


when it comes to getting pussy you forget all logic and make horrible choices.   I fuckin hate you guys.  

[vittu]

do you think she meets these criteria?

Borderline Personality Disorder

Five or more of the following present for a significant period of time:
   1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. [Not including suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5]
   2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
   3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
   4. Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, promiscuous sex, eating disorders, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). [Again, not including suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5]
   5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
   6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days)
   7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
   8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
   9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.

Whoa!!! I need a dictionary for that. I have a pretty good grammar but apparently not good enough.

Like I said, I don't know her that well but

1. apparently
2. I need a dictionary for this one.
3. Yes.
4. Yes. promiscuous sex and substance abuse that I know of
5. Fuck yes. Every fuckin' day
6. Again dictionary would be needed but she has anxiety and takes bentsodiazepams
7. Wouldn't know about that.
8. I think so
9. Dunno

So....

[imhotep]

sadly that is your demise.  

boys are fucking stupid. yeah maybe we think different. but still ya'll are a dumb lot.  
when it comes to getting pussy you forget all logic and make horrible choices.   I fuckin hate you guys.  

It's evolution telling us to pro-create.

[Juicy]

nice comeback Imhotep  


making excuses proves my point.  you lot think better when the blood is ballenced throughout the body.

[imhotep]

I hear you J.

[vittu]

first, why did you give her your number.

Cause we had met a lot of times and she seemed cool.

what do you mean she doesn't know you???  explain that

I mean she doesn't know me well enough to text me all her personal problems. It would be different thing if we would have been good friends for months.... or something. And after all she has a boyfriend(which I'm starting to doubt).

you I'm sure had some sort of sign telling you that she was a bit odd..... some sign in the begining that you either missed or ignored...

Yes I did think she was a bit odd to begin with... That I think attracted me in the first place. I like girls that are a little "crazy", in a positive way. But I wasn't suspecting she was this crazy.

[imhotep]

She needs help Vittu.

[Juicy]

I never give out my number.

she seemed cool?  somebody as fucked in the head as that broad sounds had to of thrown you a red flag.... "odd" and "psychotic"  put off different vibes.  

best thing love... be straight up and tell her exactly what's on your mind.....  don't add to her insecurities by putting up with her shit..... she knows how to get what she wants from you.... you just have to put a stop to it....the cutting and suicide shit I'm sure is just bullshit.. next time you'll be looking for those red flags won't ya?  

[joe]

Whoa!!! I need a dictionary for that. I have a pretty good grammar but apparently not good enough.

Like I said, I don't know her that well but

1. apparently
2. I need a dictionary for this one.
3. Yes.
4. Yes. promiscuous sex and substance abuse that I know of
5. Fuck yes. Every fuckin' day
6. Again dictionary would be needed but she has anxiety and takes bentsodiazepams
7. Wouldn't know about that.
8. I think so
9. Dunno

So....

Wow, that definitely fulfils the criteria.
Unless you've met the boyfriend, he probably doesn't exist.

[Fuckedindahead]

Break the mould, think with your brain and not your cock. "Cos if she IS a psycho bitch, you may not have a cock to think with soon.

[vittu]

I never give out my number.

I never give my number either but I was a bit stoned so it happened.

she seemed cool?  somebody as fucked in the head as that broad sounds had to of thrown you a red flag.... "odd" and "psychotic"  put off different vibes.  

No, I'm telling you she was cool and hot and all, nothing screwy. She was artistic, she paints and stuff so I thought that was cool. My Ex was a poet and published two poetry books. So I've always been attracted to artistic types. Lots of my friends are musicians and artist and artists are a bit "odd".

Only later when I've given my number she started to turn really freaky, like she really has an obsession on me. Like I'm the only person in the world for her and that's why I feel sorry for her and don't want to be rude.

Anyway I'm wanting that goth punk chick now anyway.. she seems more stable

[Sloth]

tell her not to download music and support small bands. that'll probably piss her enough