What does one do when one is attracted to someone who one knows one can never have?
The guy's 49.
I'm 21.
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Started by _Pondersome., Mar 25 2011 12:26 PM
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 12:59 PM
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What does one do when one is attracted to someone who one knows one can never have?
craigslist missed connections.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 01:57 PM
49? Damn, that's old... 
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 01:59 PM
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49? Damn, that's old...
i know...
and he's my lecturer.
double fail.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 02:17 PM
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What does one do when one is attracted to someone who one knows one can never have?
craigslist missed connections.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 02:19 PM
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 02:23 PM
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WELCOME TO MY WORLD.
It's fucking horrible isn't it?
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 02:24 PM
No, that's just bad.
Horrible is when you both try to still work things out but fail at it.
Horrible is when you both try to still work things out but fail at it.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 02:48 PM
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 03:42 PM
prolly just a simple electra complex.....
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 04:28 PM
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Talking from experience?
Very much so, yes. I'm a complete pro in falling in love and having a good time until it goes horribly wrong with men I can never really have in the end.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 04:37 PM
QUOTE(Nessa @ Mar 25 2011, 02:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
WELCOME TO MY WORLD.
Very much your area of expertise!
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 04:42 PM
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QUOTE(EraserHR @ Mar 25 2011, 03:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Talking from experience?
Very much so, yes. I'm a complete pro in falling in love and having a good time until it goes horribly wrong with men I can never really have in the end.
Bummer.
I'm a complete pro at not having feelings.
I'm not looking for anything serious, but always seem to find girls who are.
And then it gets complicated when I realize that I should break up with her before it's too late.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 04:45 PM
QUOTE(EraserHR @ Mar 25 2011, 04:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE(Nessa @ Mar 25 2011, 05:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE(EraserHR @ Mar 25 2011, 03:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Talking from experience?
Very much so, yes. I'm a complete pro in falling in love and having a good time until it goes horribly wrong with men I can never really have in the end.
Bummer.
I'm a complete pro at not having feelings.
I'm not looking for anything serious, but always seem to find girls who are.
And then it gets complicated when I realize that I should break up with her before it's too late.
sounds like you guys are made for not being with each other
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 04:46 PM
Well, we COULD try long distance and see how that works...
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 04:49 PM
I'm thinking maybe I should wear a wedding ring and get me some of this electra action that's going on 
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 05:10 PM
I have been attracted to guys that age before. Something about them and the unobtainable factor is really attractive.
I have decided myself that when and if I ever get divorced, I will be the biggest cougar out there. Watch out 20 some year old guys I will be coming for you. I plan on having my phone jam packed with booty call numbers.
I have decided myself that when and if I ever get divorced, I will be the biggest cougar out there. Watch out 20 some year old guys I will be coming for you. I plan on having my phone jam packed with booty call numbers.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 05:11 PM
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 05:59 PM
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Well, we COULD try long distance and see how that works...
That would require you to be in your mid thirties (minimum), a successful "business"man with a huuuuge pervert inside and a big preference for bdsm sex.
I somehow keep finding them.
I'm all for distance relationships, too.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:00 PM
ya, a businessman havinga midlife crisis, wanting to bang a younger chick. hardly ever happens.
youre into the s and m?
youre into the s and m?
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:05 PM
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ya, a businessman havinga midlife crisis, wanting to bang a younger chick. hardly ever happens.
youre into the s and m?
youre into the s and m?
Yea I seem to be perfect for that. I also somehow always manage to get them emotionally attached, but never enough. Ah well.
More into the m actually.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:25 PM
yeah...it's soul fucking destroying.
he has no idea i'm a total worshipper of him.
he has no idea i'm a total worshipper of him.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:29 PM
old people are so disgusting
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:32 PM
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old people are so disgusting
this man's not.
neither is richard gere.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:33 PM
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yeah...it's soul fucking destroying.
he has no idea i'm a total worshipper of him.
he has no idea i'm a total worshipper of him.
if he's a hot prof, then he may have an inkling; unless you never make eye contact, ask questions or speak in class. i tried to sneak glances at the hot prof on campus. failed. he knows he's hot and that all the people slack jaw over him.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:34 PM
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old people are so disgusting
That didn't stop you trying to chat me up
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:39 PM
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yeah...it's soul fucking destroying.
he has no idea i'm a total worshipper of him.
he has no idea i'm a total worshipper of him.
if he's a hot prof, then he may have an inkling; unless you never make eye contact, ask questions or speak in class. i tried to sneak glances at the hot prof on campus. failed. he knows he's hot and that all the people slack jaw over him.
nah, he's not conventionally hot. i have a fucked up taste though. my mates are taking the piss out of me.
but omg i really, really would.
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Posted 25 March 2011 - 06:50 PM
oh good on you then, unconventional taste in men means you have character. that's why it degrades me to lust after the hot prof on campus that everyone swoons over. he lives near campus and goes running shirtless. he's like a sober Matthew McConaughey ffs; but i don't think hes into BDSM, so forget it. 
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